The Don'ts in Your Attraction Strategy to Women
Showing a woman that they understand GAME is the first thing that most guys do when they meet a girl.
They'll start to talk about evolution, alpha males, how women will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know women are more intimate than guys.
Starting now, lets consider that nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
Let me tell you why, and also give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead.
As what I have learn I pick-up, generally this kind of things will make a very poor conversation topics with women. Particularly hot ones.
This might work with the social anthropologist people, but not to the girl that any man in his right mind would be attracted to.
Now there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(BTW - if you do happen to meet a woman that loves this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as a strategy in ATTRACTION for most of the female population)
1. It provokes a woman on the defensive. It's like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you're "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a huge turn off, but also makes a woman think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. There is a chance that her awareness level is only about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters on the concept called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you LOVED for a friend and they just didn't get it?
That's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who spends most of her time thinking about new clothes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club" is just too weird for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!
3. To a woman that understand it; when you're talking about it make it seem like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
About 5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women and capable of open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating ALSO get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!
Now the moment you do it, those women that are eligible for your lifestyle, will instantly disqualify you.
So here's what you should do.
Well – here are the most powerful techniques that I use:
** Understand society's programming
** Understand her specific programming, and
** Appear to be under the exact same programming.
Keep your knowledge of REALITY to yourself (and if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)
You're going to see a big difference in your game and I want to be part of it.
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