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Fashion For The Pickup Artist Pt. 1

12:22, 2008-Oct-13 .. 0 comments .. Link

I am NOT a very fashionable type of guy.

I usually let my girlfriend pick out clothes for me - not
for MY benefit..

... so that she doesn't feel ashamed if we go together to
the public!

If I were the one to pick my clothes, I'd rather pick the
sweats and t-shirt, coupled with my old worn sneakers. I
mean, I think fashion is silly.

I can absolutely appreciate the aspect of design and style
of fashion. When I looked at the able-bodied dressed woman,
her outfits is like of art, and I dig that.

But when a guy is "too stylish" I kinda lose respect for
him.

Don't get me wrong, a man should present himself like he
means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality,
well-fitting clothes are a fundamental part of masculine
expression.

But some men take it too far.

Case in point, the obsession with "pea****ing" in the
pickup Community for the past several years.

When I hear this term it makes me cringe.

YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.

If you're not familiar with "pea****ing," let me explain.

A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based
"game," relying heavily on superficial techniques, status
games, and over-analysis of social interactions.

This always gone in the opposite direction and I never saw
the value of it.

Reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone
other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that
other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.

The PRIMARY FOCUS of all these strategy and game-playing
was to visibly get approval from women, but making them feel
insecure and they'd think you were cooler than them.

Think about the layers in the dating approach. Not only are
you faking your personality because you

a) seek approval (as if women were an authority on what
makes a man a man)

b) keep the fact that you're seeking approval

c) play games with women so that they feel insecure and try
to seek your approval

YUCK

One of the main techniques of this approach was to
"pea****," to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so
that women would "notice" you and want to talk to you.

Now there's nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a
necklace that has some personal meaning.

But don't do it to make women like you.

I'm sure a lot of you guys have seen the advocates of this
approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this
hare-brained "technique."

I felt sad to the students of other pickup schools that
I've encountered because these poor guys were not only
nervous, clumsy, misdirected...they looked RETARDED.

So I'd like to set a record when it comes to fashion and
meeting girls.

There are only few things that you need to focus when it
comes to your appearance.

After knowing this stuff, you should put it out of your
mind and TAKE ACTION before women can notice you.

Before we move on, I have a secret that has to reveal.

(Continued in Part 2)
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